reflect

The things we do

As fathers, husbands and just straight up adults, we seem to have a hell of a lot of responsibility. On any given day in any given week as of the birth of my first son, sleeping in didn’t exist. Instead as an adult we all have to make sure that we sit out I,s and cross our t’s to make sure that the world keeps spinning for another day. Today

Past present and future

Today has been a real day for nostalgia. Old feelings and emotions from memories of an age gone. It seems to me that after a certain point in your life you realise that your once care free days of child and teen life has slipped away and those feelings will never come back again. When I was a kid growing up on a little hobby farm out in the middle

How to diffuse a blowout argument (in a way you might not think)

No relationship is perfect. Every one argues, every one annoys and every one clashes at some point. If you don’t, then I am sure you are not human! Right now my wife is pregnant and as we all know hormones are some what like a roller coaster. Up, down, led, right and hey who knows. There may even be a sideways thrown in there for good measure. The fact is

Is it important?

It seems to me that for as long as I can remember I have felt like I have not had enough time in my day to do anything. So many things in this world interest me and now that my family is going I am even more “time poor” As I write this I am laying in bed unable to sleep, my wife breathing deeply and off in the other